Introduction

Success in an individual’s life plays a vital role in his quality of individual and family life along with being a solid person in his social life.

Success is so necessary to an individual that these things literally start to take place in the homes with kids being talked about what to become when they grow up to a certain age.

Kids being conditioned to be successful in  every aspect and area of life according to parent’s expectations and family values since  small are then made to be disciplined with core values, good habits and consistency.

Kids at a tender age start to copy and imbibe whatever they see , hear and are told to do.

Environment of a kid ,the background, the home he is living in plays an important role in being an individual , who is a good human and a responsible citizen of the country.

Role, impact and necessity of good habits in a child’s development and success as an individual

Habits developed since childhood live on to a lifetime of a person. Be it good habits or bad habits, bad habits might not change over a period of time but  good habits may live upto a Lifetime.

Consistency is key in developing habits. consistently developing good habits may induce a child to adopt it permanently for his benefit which may go on for a lifetime .

Even society loves and respects a person who has good qualities and habits as he gradually becomes a good example and role model for the society or people at large

School , Class fellows and teachers  act as an institution for overall development of the child while dealing with society and it’s pressure and responsibility.

They  play a key role in developing habits like attitude, politeness, talking and way of speaking, dialects, respect towards beings , talents ,focus and cooperation among peers

Adopting habits to speak softly and refraining from using curse words or bad language is expected even from adults so that children don’t learn anything bad and grow up with a habit of continuously using curse words while talking or just out of habit even in places where it’s not expected to be used . To avoid embarrassment or such situations where dignity of an organisation or individual is to be maintained, use of good language and avoiding slang curse words is preferred.

Children grow up to be adults and good language leads to a good attitude and life hence adoption of good language is expected from a young age.

Playing games whether indoor or outdoor plays a great role in using the brain to its capacity where intelligence quotient IQ  seems to grow in an individual . Kids must be encouraged to play games and work out for their fitness too.

Since indoor activities also include digital machines such as laptops and mobile phones , constant use of these tools are leading to children being restricted to the indoor world only along with the virtual world. All of this is leading children to develop visual impairment, obesity, laziness, low blood circulation etc .

Fostering good food eating habits is very crucial at an early stage . Not even children but adults are picky eaters too . Eating vegetables which are full of antioxidants, vitamins and minerals help in overall development of children and their biological function . Encourage and develop a habit in children to eat veggies and salad in their routine life.

Staying hydrated and drinking water throughout the day is really important for children so that their body can carry out their energetic tasks without feeling thirsty.

Family Togetherness is something which children are taught or conditioned in most families. This may seem to be a common thing or one may find this unimportant but it is one of the most important aspects of being a family person in this lifetime. Family Togetherness can be taught through eating meals together or trying to eat at least one meal together so that the child feels a bond between him and his family members .

Sharing holidays with family members, siblings cousins etc brings happiness and bonding among members specially the child

Simple , daily and self maintenance habits like brushing your teeth twice a day ,bathing, wearing clean clothes , washing hands before and after meals also multiple times a day is very beneficial for being a successful and neat individual in the person children on their desired age should be taught step by step .Each of these daily rituals which are necessary for their daily lifestyle.

Comparisons between children among them, with other friends , class fellows by parents or any other person sometimes leads to development of envy in them hence, children should be taught to be grateful.

Thankfulness and gratefulness is the basic human value which should be taught by people and parents surrounding the children. This will help them to understand how even the basic things are valuable and necessary in life. There is always someone who is above them and below them as well . Hence this quality will bring peace , happiness and contentment throughout their life and they may also set an example for society and people around them to adapt to this quality for self and public good.

Simple human character aspects like being honest and speaking truth, owning and accepting mistakes , consequences and situations helps a child to grow in his life with free will and a character full being.

Children often make parents as their role model or idol in their life if parents follow these principles of aspects children can easily adapt to the quality without this being so much burden in life.

This is easily understood by a quote given by a famous person

Always do right. This will gratify some people and astonish the rest. -Mark Twain

Children do study in school or in extra class but reading the right books to learn life and fiction is necessary. Development of reading habits may be difficult for some children but it eventually develops somehow.

Reading is such a good habit that it develops patience, concentration and critical thinking mechanisms in children . Some children are born readers whereas some are not . Although parents and teachers can encourage their children and students to adopt reading habits to acquire special qualities from an early stage of life.

Tips to  parents for their children

• Positive reinforcement can help a child develop good habits quickly. Acknowledgments play a key role in growing children. Just acknowledge whenever they try to adapt to the taught mannerisms. Your positive approach and feedback may let the child to do even more than what is taught.
• Be a positive and ideal role model yourself .Child sees People in a close knit family who live together and you are his parent so you have the responsibility to teach your child to be ideal in various life tasks and challenges. Parents are known to be first role model for their children.
• Magic words for the world.

sorry , thank you , alright, fine , I’m grateful, thank God etc. these daily life words when used in home can be easily carried out by children well when understood by them . These are the basic words which are used in  conversations with various People.

• Money managing at an early stage of childhood can level up their game with money matters Teach them where to keep their money how to keep the money and how to stay aware when keeping , spending and managing their money. Show them how you do it as an example wherever possible so that they can quickly imbibe as to what Is correctly shown by you
• Table manners start at home. Chewing with mouth closed using spoon, folk and hands in a proper way while eating keeping an eye on food plate keeping a check on hunger and fullness and taking the desired amount of food all of this when the family does with consciousness is then a copy paste into the child . Every one needs to be aware of their table manners since in this lifetime one may interact with a lot of people over food and meals.
• Cleanliness in home plays a vital in role in overall hygiene of the family especially the child. Teaching children to clean up their own mess may make them near independent in managing their own things . Eg cleaning up their toys and study area, picking up dishes after eating. Parents can reinforce them this habit through acknowledgement or reward and teaching them it’s daily importance.
• Sharing is caring , we all love in this humanitarian world where this is a norm . Teaching children to share their toys ,books ,food and belongings with family, friends, siblings etc is a way to healthy relationship and bonds in life . They may even see you sharing or Caring for your people and do it for his circle .

Conclusion

Habits and development just go on throughout life. Ever day one person learns different things in life as it is dynamic and sometimes gradual at the same. When children learn everything young success is guaranteed .

Hence efforts of both parents and children are needed for success in life .